Pokud se rodi\u010de maj\u00ed r\u00e1di a vytvo\u0159ili si spolu p\u011bkn\u00fd vztah, m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b zpola vyhr\u00e1no. Dobr\u00fd vztah mezi m\u00e1mou a t\u00e1tou je pro mal\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka zdrojem jistoty a d\u016fv\u011bry v cel\u00fd sv\u011bt. Z n\u011bho bude \u010derpat po cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Prvn\u00ed povinnost\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f ve v\u00fdchov\u011b potomka je proto milovat se a d\u00e1vat si to i vz\u00e1jemn\u011b najevo. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b je mnoho p\u00e1r\u016f, kter\u00e9 se roze\u0161li, v tom p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se alespo\u0148 sna\u017ete udr\u017eovat korektn\u00ed vztahy a nezatahovat do spor\u016f d\u011bti.<\/li>
Krom\u011b toho, aby rodi\u010de spolu dob\u0159e vych\u00e1zeli, je pro d\u00edt\u011b extr\u00e9mn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby se na sv\u011bt\u011b dob\u0159e c\u00edtil i ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165. Aby byl spokojen a vyrovnan\u00fd. Pe\u010dujte proto o svou du\u0161i, dop\u0159ejte si dostatek odpo\u010dinku a d\u011blejte v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s t\u011b\u0161\u00ed. D\u011bti se u\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1podobou a co pro n\u011b m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm vzorem ne\u017e \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 m\u00e1ma a \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd t\u00e1ta. \u0160t\u011bst\u00ed od v\u00e1s jednodu\u0161e dohl\u00ed\u017eej\u00ed!<\/li>
\u201ePot\u0159ebujeme, aby n\u00e1s lid\u00e9 uzn\u00e1vali, v\u0161\u00edmali si n\u00e1s a \u2013 co by bylo nejlep\u0161\u00ed \u2013 up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b n\u00e1s chv\u00e1lili. Chceme, aby lid\u00e9 poslouchali na\u0161e my\u0161lenky a dokonce je obdivovali,\u201c odhaluje p\u0159irozenou lidskou pot\u0159ebu australsk\u00fd klinick\u00fd psycholog Steve Biddulph, autor knih Pro\u010d jsou \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 d\u011bti \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 a Tajemstv\u00ed v\u00fdchovy \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. Plat\u00ed to nejen o dosp\u011bl\u00fdch, ale tak\u00e9 o d\u011btech. Ty stejn\u011b prahnou po pochvalu. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, neznamen\u00e1 to s chv\u00e1len\u00edm p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u011bt a vyjad\u0159ovat obdiv nad ka\u017edou \u201ehloupost\u00ed\u201c, proto\u017ee pak ocen\u011bn\u00ed ztr\u00e1c\u00ed na sv\u00e9 s\u00edle a v\u00fdznamu. Nezapome\u0148te v\u0161ak pravideln\u011b vyzdvihovat, v \u010dem m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt d\u00edt\u011b na sebe py\u0161n\u00e9. Pokud ho hodnot\u00edte kladn\u011b, pozitivn\u00ed obraz o sob\u011b si ponese do dal\u0161\u00edho \u017eivota.<\/li>
Rodi\u010de \u0159e\u0161\u00ed s d\u011btmi \u010dasto jen \u201eprovozn\u00ed\u201c z\u00e1le\u017eitosti. Co bylo ve \u0161kolce \u010di \u0161kole, dom\u00e1c\u00ed \u00fakoly, po\u0159\u00e1dek v d\u011btsk\u00e9m pokoji, ve\u010dern\u00ed \u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed zub\u016f a podobn\u011b. M\u00e9n\u011b se ji\u017e zam\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed na vnit\u0159n\u00ed sv\u011bt d\u00edt\u011bte. Nad \u010d\u00edm p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed, \u010deho se boj\u00ed, co ho tr\u00e1p\u00ed? Zaj\u00edmejte se o to. Neomezujte se jen na oblig\u00e1tn\u00ed ot\u00e1zky: Co bylo ve \u0161kolce, co bylo ve \u0161kole? Mluvte o z\u00e1\u017eitc\u00edch z cel\u00e9ho dne. Ale nejen o tom, co se stalo. Tak\u00e9 o tom, jak se d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159i tom c\u00edtilo a co si o situaci myslelo. Pokud d\u00edt\u011bti umo\u017en\u00edte, aby vyj\u00e1d\u0159ilo, co c\u00edt\u00ed, m\u016f\u017eete mu pomoci pochopit sv\u011bt, spoluformovat jeho kladn\u00e9 psychick\u00e9 nastaven\u00ed a nasm\u011brovat jej k tomu, jak \u0159e\u0161it r\u016fzn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed probl\u00e9my a v\u00fdzvy. Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010das na rozhovor je ve\u010der p\u0159ed span\u00edm nebo o v\u00edkendu, kdy se spolu vyprav\u00edte na v\u00fdlet.<\/li>
\u0160\u0165astn\u00fd je v \u017eivot\u011b ten, kdo m\u00e1 pozitivn\u00ed psychick\u00e9 nalad\u011bn\u00ed a d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje jin\u00fdm lidem. O\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u017edy to lep\u0161\u00ed as t\u00edm hor\u0161\u00edm si dok\u00e1\u017ee poradit. Pozitivn\u00edmu p\u0159\u00edstupu k \u017eivotu se lze velmi dob\u0159e nau\u010dit. Neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 ignorovat negativn\u00ed v\u011bci a tv\u00e1\u0159it se v\u017edy \u0161\u0165astn\u011b. Jde o nastaven\u00ed z\u00e1kladn\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bry, \u017ee i obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed zkou\u0161ky lze s optimistick\u00fdm vid\u011bn\u00edm sv\u011bta zvl\u00e1dnout snadn\u011bji.<\/li>
Rodi\u010de \u010dasto br\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011btem svobodn\u011b se vyj\u00e1d\u0159it. Neb\u011bhej, nesk\u00e1\u010d, uklidni se, ne\u0159\u00edkej tak nahlas, ne\u0159ev, nepl\u00e1\u010d a podobn\u011b. Jak \u010dasto tyto v\u011bty b\u011bhem dne vyj\u00e1d\u0159\u00edte? Ned\u011bl\u00e1te to ve \u0161patn\u00e9m \u00famyslu, jen chcete, aby se d\u00edt\u011b chovalo \u201edob\u0159e\u201c. Jen\u017ee to, co je podle v\u00e1s dobr\u00e9, si potomek m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159elo\u017eit takto: Kdy\u017e d\u011bl\u00e1m v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 m\u011b bav\u00ed a kdy\u017e vyjad\u0159uji, co c\u00edt\u00edm, je to \u0161patn\u011b. Nejsem tedy v po\u0159\u00e1dku. S takov\u00fdm vnit\u0159n\u00edm p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bk t\u011b\u017eko m\u016f\u017ee v \u017eivot\u011b usp\u011bt. Bu\u010f ze strachu, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017ee, neuskute\u010dn\u00ed sv\u00e9 sny a neprojev\u00ed naplno sv\u016fj potenci\u00e1l, nebo se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t a\u017e p\u0159ehnan\u011b vzdorovit\u00fdm, k vlastn\u00ed \u0161kod\u011b.<\/li>
V\u00fdchova je d\u0159ina, na tom se asi shodnou v\u0161ichni rodi\u010de. A tak pod t\u00edhou v\u0161emo\u017en\u00fdch povinnost\u00ed zapom\u00edn\u00e1me na velmi d\u016fle\u017eitou slo\u017eku \u017eivota s d\u00edt\u011btem. Pro spole\u010dnou z\u00e1bavu, bl\u00e1zn\u011bn\u00ed se, radost a uvoln\u011bnost. D\u011bti miluj\u00ed, kdy\u017e je doma sm\u00edch. Na co chcete, aby d\u00edt\u011b jednou vzpom\u00ednalo? Na unavenou a vystresovanou m\u00e1mu, nebo na vesel\u00e9ho a radostn\u00e9ho nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edho \u010dlov\u011bka? Sna\u017ete se proto ze v\u0161ech sil, aby bylo doma dob\u0159e. I za cenu toho, \u017ee n\u011bco nestihnete nebo to neud\u011bl\u00e1te dokonale. D\u011bti zkr\u00e1tka mus\u00ed vid\u011bt, \u017ee \u017eivot nejsou jen povinnosti, ale tak\u00e9 z\u00e1bava.<\/li>
Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b bez v\u00fdjimky pot\u0159ebuje, aby mu rodi\u010de neprodlen\u011b plnili jeho pot\u0159eby. K prvo\u0159ad\u00fdm pat\u0159\u00ed pot\u0159eba fyzick\u00e9ho kontaktu.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n
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