{"id":2074,"date":"2022-02-25T08:23:45","date_gmt":"2022-02-25T07:23:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/?p=2074"},"modified":"2022-02-25T08:23:47","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T07:23:47","slug":"13-navyku-stastnych-paru-napodobte-je","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/?p=2074","title":{"rendered":"13 n\u00e1vyk\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f. Napodobte je!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

M\u00edt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd vztah i po n\u011bkolika letech nen\u00ed nic slo\u017eit\u00e9ho. Sta\u010d\u00ed si osvojit p\u00e1r zvyk\u016f, kter\u00e9 vnesete do sv\u00e9ho partnerstv\u00ed a l\u00e1ska v n\u011bm bude jen vzkv\u00e9tat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee m\u00edt dobr\u00fd vztah vy\u017eaduje velkou d\u0159inu, ale ve skute\u010dnosti to nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt tak slo\u017eit\u00e9. Co d\u011blaj\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 p\u00e1ry jinak a l\u00e9pe ne\u017e ty m\u00e9n\u011b \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Relaxuj\u00ed spolu
    Nemus\u00ed j\u00edt o velk\u00e9 v\u011bci. Sta\u010d\u00ed ve\u010der sed\u011bt v ob\u00fdvac\u00edm pokoji se sklenkou v\u00edna, d\u00edvat spolu film nebo si \u010d\u00edst, ka\u017ed\u00fd samoz\u0159ejm\u011b svou knihu, a\u010dkoli i takov\u00e9 p\u0159ed\u010d\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed m\u00e1 velk\u00e9 kouzlo. Spole\u010dn\u011b tr\u00e1ven\u00fd odpo\u010dinek p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed siln\u00fd pocit soun\u00e1le\u017eitosti.<\/li>
  2. Ne\u0161et\u0159\u00ed komplimenty
    Kdy jste sv\u00e9mu partnerovi naposledy \u0159ekli, \u017ee dob\u0159e vypad\u00e1, je chytr\u00fd \u010di moudr\u00fd, \u017ee ud\u011blal n\u011bjakou v\u011bc spr\u00e1vn\u011b? Komplimenty jsou zdarma, a p\u0159ece s pochvalami a ocen\u011bn\u00edm \u010dasto \u0161et\u0159\u00edme. Na\u0161e kultura nestoj\u00ed na ocen\u011bn\u00ed ostatn\u00edch, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e na kritice. A p\u0159itom by\u0165 jen mal\u00e1 pochvala dok\u00e1\u017ee druh\u00e9ho velmi pot\u011b\u0161it a pos\u00edlit jeho vztah k n\u00e1m.<\/li>
  3. \u0158\u00edkaj\u00ed si, \u017ee se miluj\u00ed
    Hlavn\u011b v dlouhodob\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch si lid\u00e9 l\u00e1sku slovy moc nevyjad\u0159uj\u00ed, a\u010dkoli se lib\u00ed. \u0158\u00edci \u010di napsat partnerovi, \u017ee ho milujete, je n\u00e1m zat\u011b\u017eko. Mysl\u00edme si, \u017ee pokud bychom sv\u00e9 city vyjad\u0159ovali p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto, ztratili by na hodnot\u011b, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b \u017ee nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9 partnera p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u201erozmazlit\u201c, ale d\u00e1 se l\u00e1skou rozmazlit?<\/li>
  4. Projevuj\u00ed si na ve\u0159ejnosti sympatie
    \u0160\u0165astn\u00e9 p\u00e1ry ukazuj\u00ed na ve\u0159ejnosti, \u017ee se miluj\u00ed. Pol\u00edb\u00ed se i p\u0159ed ostatn\u00edmi, obejmou se, \u0159eknou si n\u011bco hezk\u00e9ho. Vys\u00edlaj\u00ed tak sign\u00e1l, \u017ee pat\u0159\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/li>
  5. Chod\u00ed sp\u00e1t ve stejnou dobu
    Spole\u010dn\u00e9 \u201ezalehnut\u00ed\u201c posiluje mezi partnery d\u016fv\u011bru. Proto\u017ee pokud jeden jde do postele v deset a druh\u00fd o jednu v noci, vznikaj\u00ed ot\u00e1zky, co vlastn\u011b v tom mezi\u010dase d\u011bl\u00e1 a zda n\u00e1hodou nekomunikuje s n\u011bk\u00fdm jin\u00fdm. Nemus\u00edte us\u00ednat ve stejn\u00fd moment, ale stejn\u00e1 doba odchodu do postele p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed mo\u017enost popov\u00eddat si a samoz\u0159ejm\u011b v\u011bnovat se jeden druh\u00e9mu i fyzicky.<\/li>
  6. B\u011bhem dne spolu komunikuj\u00ed
    P\u0159esto\u017ee se ve\u010der po pr\u00e1ci znovu uvid\u00ed doma, po\u0161lou si b\u011bhem dne p\u00e1r textov\u00fdch zpr\u00e1v nebo si zavolaj\u00ed. Jen tak. Proto\u017ee cht\u011bj\u00ed. V komunikaci ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed provozn\u00ed v\u011bci, dom\u00e1cnost ani d\u011bti, ale ptaj\u00ed se, jak se ten druh\u00fd m\u00e1 a co d\u011bl\u00e1.<\/li>
  7. Jsou dobr\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00e1teli
    Co z\u016fstane, kdy\u017e opadne zamilovanost a prvotn\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148? L\u00e1ska je p\u0159edpokladem \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho vztahu, ale stejn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je b\u00fdt dobr\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00e1teli, kte\u0159\u00ed si dok\u00e1\u017eou popov\u00eddat, vyslechnout jeden druh\u00e9ho a poradit si. Jako opravdov\u00ed kamar\u00e1di.<\/li>
  8. D\u00e1vaj\u00ed a nic za to ne\u010dekaj\u00ed
    Vztah nevn\u00edmaj\u00ed jako v\u00fdm\u011bnn\u00fd obchod. Sna\u017e\u00ed se d\u00e1t ze sebe maximum, ve vztahu jsou nezi\u0161tn\u00ed. Ne, nejedn\u00e1 se o projev naivity, ale skute\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b pokud od partnera nedost\u00e1v\u00e1me citovou zp\u011btnou vazbu nebo trp\u00edme jeho nez\u00e1jmem, je dobr\u00e9 sna\u017eit se to zm\u011bnit, ale do vztahu nelze j\u00edt s kalkulem, \u017ee kdy\u017e n\u011bco d\u00e1m, automaticky m\u00e1m n\u00e1rok dostat n\u011bco zp\u011bt.<\/li>
  9. Ptaj\u00ed se partnera, co pot\u0159ebuje
    Zaj\u00edmaj\u00ed se o pot\u0159eby sv\u00e9ho partnera a sna\u017e\u00ed se je bu\u010f p\u0159\u00edmo naplnit, nebo mu v jejich napl\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed pomoci. Z\u00e1jem o partnera a snaha ho podpo\u0159it podstatn\u011b zvy\u0161uj\u00ed \u0161ance, \u017ee spolu zest\u00e1rnete.<\/li>
  10. Nesna\u017e\u00ed se partnera zm\u011bnit
    Ale berou ho takov\u00e9ho, jak\u00fd je. Pokud chceme partnera zm\u011bnit, d\u00e1v\u00e1me mu t\u00edm najevo, \u017ee nen\u00ed dostate\u010dn\u011b dobr\u00fd a pot\u0159ebuje „opravit“. A to nem\u00e1 nikdo r\u00e1d. Nam\u00edsto zm\u011bny tak proti sob\u011b partnera jen popud\u00edte. Pokud v\u00e1m n\u011bco velmi p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, m\u016f\u017eete mluvit o sv\u00fdch pocitech a pot\u0159eb\u00e1ch, ale nevi\u0148te partnera z toho, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco \u0161patn\u011b.<\/li>
  11. Nam\u00edsto boje hledaj\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b
    Ka\u017ed\u00fd vztah proch\u00e1z\u00ed n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdmi situacemi a partne\u0159i se dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed do spor\u016f. M\u00edsto toho, abyste se zabarik\u00e1dovali ka\u017ed\u00fd ve sv\u00e9m z\u00e1kopu, vyjd\u011bte z nich ven. Nep\u0159ipus\u0165te boj, ve kter\u00e9m v\u017edy nakonec budou oba pora\u017eeni, ale rad\u011bji hledejte spole\u010dn\u00fd prostor, kter\u00fd v\u00e1m umo\u017en\u00ed o probl\u00e9mech debatovat a hledat \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, kter\u00e9 bude ob\u011bma vyhovovat. Na tomto spole\u010dn\u00e9m h\u0159i\u0161ti nemaj\u00ed m\u00edsto ur\u00e1\u017eky, ale respekt a d\u016fstojnost.<\/li>
  12. Nepou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed pasivn\u00ed agresi
    Pasivn\u00ed agrese m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt je\u0161t\u011b hor\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e h\u00e1dky a otev\u0159en\u00e9 konflikty. Znamen\u00e1, \u017ee se s partnerem odm\u00edt\u00e1te bavit o sporn\u00fdch m\u00edstech, ml\u010d\u00edte, vyh\u00fdb\u00e1te se mu, nechcete pochopit jeho argumenty a pohled na v\u011bc. Pat\u0159\u00ed sem i nespolupr\u00e1ce a odkl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed povinnost\u00ed, tvrdohlavost, klam\u00e1n\u00ed \u010di nejednozna\u010dn\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Pasivn\u011b agresivn\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk sv\u016fj hn\u011bv maskuje, ned\u00e1v\u00e1 ho najevo, ale sna\u017e\u00ed se sv\u00e9ho partnera potr\u00e1pit pr\u00e1v\u011b pasivn\u00edm zp\u016fsobem.<\/li>
  13. Rostou spolu
    U\u017e si nem\u00e1me co \u0159\u00edct, ka\u017ed\u00fd jsme se vydali jinou cestou, nejdeme u\u017e spolu, ale \u017eijeme jen vedle sebe. To je \u010dasto d\u016fvod rozvodu \u010di rozchodu. Po letech spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u017eivota najednou nech\u00e1pete, s k\u00fdm to vlastn\u011b sd\u00edl\u00edte kuchyni i lo\u017enici. Ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk se vyv\u00edj\u00ed a m\u011bn\u00ed. To je p\u0159irozen\u00e9. Dejte si v\u0161ak pozor, abyste rostli i spolu jako p\u00e1r. Abyste se nestali \u010dasem jen dv\u011bma individualitami, kter\u00e9 se u\u017e pomalu ani nepozdrav\u00ed. Sv\u016fj vztah dejte do pop\u0159ed\u00ed a starejte se o n\u011bj.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n
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    M\u00edt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd vztah i po n\u011bkolika letech nen\u00ed nic slo\u017eit\u00e9ho. Sta\u010d\u00ed si osvojit p\u00e1r zvyk\u016f, kter\u00e9 vnesete do sv\u00e9ho partnerstv\u00ed a l\u00e1ska v n\u011bm bude jen vzkv\u00e9tat. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee m\u00edt dobr\u00fd vztah vy\u017eaduje velkou d\u0159inu, ale ve skute\u010dnosti to nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt tak slo\u017eit\u00e9. Co d\u011blaj\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 p\u00e1ry jinak a l\u00e9pe ne\u017e ty m\u00e9n\u011b \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2075,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[156],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2074","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-finance"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2074","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2074"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2074\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2075"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2074"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2074"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2074"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}