{"id":2082,"date":"2022-02-25T08:26:04","date_gmt":"2022-02-25T07:26:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/?p=2082"},"modified":"2022-02-25T08:26:06","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T07:26:06","slug":"mit-deti-vas-ucini-stastnejsimi-ale-az-kdyz-po-letech-odejdou-z-domu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/?p=2082","title":{"rendered":"M\u00edt d\u011bti v\u00e1s u\u010din\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi! Ale a\u017e kdy\u017e po letech odejdou z domu\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

N\u011bme\u010dt\u00ed v\u011bdci p\u0159i\u0161li se zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm, kter\u00e9 je pro rodi\u010de dobrou a z\u00e1rove\u0148 \u0161patnou zpr\u00e1vou: m\u00edt d\u011bti je u\u010din\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi, ale a\u017e ve chv\u00edli, kdy potomci odejdou z domu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Teprve kdy\u017e d\u011bti odejdou a vytvo\u0159\u00ed si vlastn\u00ed \u017eivoty, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e v\u0161ak udr\u017euj\u00ed dobr\u00e9 vztahy s rodi\u010di, p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed \u00fadajn\u011b k\u00fd\u017een\u00fd pocit \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed a spokojenost.
P\u00ed\u0161e o tom britsk\u00fd den\u00edk The Times s odvol\u00e1n\u00edm na pr\u016fzkum v\u011bdc\u016f z univerzity v Heidelbergu, kte\u0159\u00ed oslovili 55.000 lid\u00ed nad 50 let ze 16 evropsk\u00fdch zem\u00ed, v\u010detn\u011b \u010ceska.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ptali se jich na jejich du\u0161evn\u00ed zdrav\u00ed, pocit pohody, rodinu a spole\u010densk\u00fd \u017eivot. Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed m\u011bli d\u011bti, se jevili \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ale platilo to a\u017e po dobu, kdy u\u017e s nimi jejich potomci nebydleli. Naproti tomu d\u011bti v rodin\u011b byly spojov\u00e1ny s ni\u017e\u0161\u00ed kvalitou \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eNa ot\u00e1zku, zda d\u011bti p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00e1 odpov\u011b\u010f. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na stadiu \u017eivota, v jak\u00e9m se d\u011bti nach\u00e1zej\u00ed,\u201c \u0159ekl The Times vedouc\u00ed studie Christoph Becker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u011bdci zd\u016fraznili, \u017ee jejich studie byla jen pozorovac\u00ed a nezji\u0161\u0165ovala p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu a n\u00e1sledek. Becker a jeho kolegov\u00e9 se ale domn\u00edvaj\u00ed, \u017ee nep\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9 d\u011bti mohou rodi\u010d\u016fm pomoci p\u0159ekonat stresov\u00e9 ud\u00e1losti, proto\u017ee jim poskytuj\u00ed pocit bezpe\u010d\u00ed, ani\u017e by vy\u017eadovaly neust\u00e1lou p\u00e9\u010di nebo pozornost. \u201e\u00daloha d\u00edt\u011bte jako formy soci\u00e1ln\u00ed podpory se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 v pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00ed f\u00e1zi \u017eivota jedince,\u201c napsali v\u011bdci ve studii, zve\u0159ejn\u011bn\u00e9 v \u010dasopise PLoS one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Obecn\u011b podle v\u011bdc\u016f plat\u00ed, \u017ee jak lid\u00e9 st\u00e1rnou, m\u00edt kolem sebe skupinu lid\u00ed, kter\u00fdm lze v\u011b\u0159it, je z\u00e1sadn\u00ed. \u017d\u00edt v man\u017eelstv\u00ed a m\u00edt bl\u00edzk\u00e9, se kter\u00fdmi si lze promluvit o probl\u00e9mech, je spojov\u00e1no s pocitem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed pohody. Nep\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9 d\u011bti tento pocit je\u0161t\u011b umoc\u0148uj\u00ed, pokud se sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di udr\u017euj\u00ed dobr\u00e9 vztahy, dodal Becker.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u011bme\u010dt\u00ed v\u011bdci p\u0159i\u0161li se zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm, kter\u00e9 je pro rodi\u010de dobrou a z\u00e1rove\u0148 \u0161patnou zpr\u00e1vou: m\u00edt d\u011bti je u\u010din\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi, ale a\u017e ve chv\u00edli, kdy potomci odejdou z domu. Teprve kdy\u017e d\u011bti odejdou a vytvo\u0159\u00ed si vlastn\u00ed \u017eivoty, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e v\u0161ak udr\u017euj\u00ed dobr\u00e9 vztahy s rodi\u010di, p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed \u00fadajn\u011b k\u00fd\u017een\u00fd pocit \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed a spokojenost.P\u00ed\u0161e o tom britsk\u00fd den\u00edk […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2083,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[155],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2082","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-zajimavosti"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2082","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2082"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2082\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2082"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2082"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chillimag.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2082"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}